Expect the Unexpected When You’re Expecting -2

Originally published on 10/21/2010

Summary of Part One: I peed in my pants. If you need the details, click here.

Despair. That’s what I felt as we rode home from Dr. Katz’s office. It’s bad enough to think you’re in labor and find out that you’re not. It’s worse to discover the new baby is not the only one who is going to need Pampers. Pat offered for us to go out to dinner in an effort to cheer me up. It wasn’t really in our budget, not to mention there were about 47 frozen meals waiting to be consumed at our apartment. We went home, ate meatloaf and cleaned up. That’s when the ache in my back turned from dull to sharp. It wasn’t consistently sharp, but it came in waves. I’d get a sharp pain in my back and then shift positions. As soon as I got comfortable, the sharp pain would strike again. This went on for a while when we decided to call my father-in-law for advice. He was an obstetrician-gynecologist. read more

Expect the Unexpected When You’re Expecting

Originally published on 10/13/2010

When I was pregnant with my first child, I read every book about pregnancy and labor that I could find. For a while, until I actually went into labor, my favorite was What to Expect When You’re Expecting, hereafter referred to as WTEWYE. I devoured that book in a single sitting and afterwards I was convinced that I knew everything there was to know about pregnancy and labor. I couldn’t have been more wrong.

On the day I would eventually go into labor, I awoke feeling a little bit off…not really ill, but just not quite myself and I had a dull ache in my back. I dragged myself out of bed, went to the bathroom and was startled to find I had LOST MY MUCUS PLUG. Oh-my-gosh. There it was. I’d been anticipating this milestone that signals the start of labor ever since I’d read about it in WTEWYE. Let me tell you something. Except for mucus there was not a single word printed in that book that could have prepared me for the sight of that thing. This was in the days before cell phones, so I paged my husband, Pat. Given the stage of my pregnancy, he called back immediately. read more